We Except The Love We Think We Deserve
There are and can be many themes for The Perks of Being a Wallflower. but my favorite is this one. 'We accept the love we think we deserve'. As you read the book or watch the movie, you realize how this quote cooperates with many relationships. Sam fell in love with the wrong guy, Craig. She loved what he gave her and thought it was meant to be. Sam deserved more than Craig, but she never realized that until her heart was broken. Many people don't have high self-esteem or don't know what they are worth so they go for people that may not respect them.